Gone through

I realize that probably half of my posts are apologizing for having abandoned this poor blog. This time it was from a medical thing that just dragged and dragged. I finally came through it. But. Man was it a struggle. I won’t put a lot of details cause quite frankly it was not pleasant and required I spend a lot of time in the bathroom. No one wants to read that crap. Literally. 

Including, me. But. When you are in something, in the thick of it and it’s like you are suddenly in ‘Honey a Shrunk the Kids’ and everything is a forrest to you even though in actuality it’s just a blade of grass, well, all you can do really is go through it. It helps if some kind souls who have some bit of understanding to your situation come alongside you. I am blessed on that score and don’t deserve the friends and family that I have. 

If you are just now hearing of this - I’m sorry. At some point I kind of just shut down trying to reach out and keep folks informed and there was not a clear line really I just arbitrarily decided that it was all too much and between having to log into yet another dang electronic medical program that was about all the capacity I had to be on my phone. 

But now. I have gone through it. The issue is resolved and it was done in the best outcome possible, so yay for all that. It truly took half a year and for that I just don’t understand. I grieve for those who have long term illnesses for the medical industry has …. Changed. I have tremendous respect for doctors and nurses so I won’t say more. I’m not sure why it is all so convoluted but I hope the reasons for that change for the better so that doctors and nurses can get back to making people well again and less of the red tape and all that crap. 

Now it’s like I’m coming out of my little cave of personal woe and looking around and the other caves and waving and folks are just living their lives. I suppose some are like ‘who was she again? Thought she died or left for another spot?’ So I guess this is my big virtual wave. Hi. Me again. I’ve gone through something and sorry if I dropped the thread with you along the way. I’m happy to be back in the land of the living again. 

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